My Boyfriend's mother is driving me up the wall!!!?

that sounds familiar! mother-in-laws can be this way...The last thing you should do is ignore her or push her away. It is her grandchild, but it is YOUR child. And that is what she needs to understand. Before it gets out of hand and turns into a big fight- you should tell her that you are doing the best you can for you and the baby. If you ignore her or push her away it could end up hurting your relationship with your boyfriend as well. You can't take that kind of pressure right this moment, your life is changing, your body is changing, and you are doing the best you can with it. Nobody experiences the same things while pregnant. If you let her control you now, she will continue and get worse. You should confront her about your feelings now. She will have to respect that. You are the mother.