How can i get fees waivered or a grant to go bankrupt?

i posted a question a minute ago and some very snotty lady answered without knowing all the facts! i am on benefits and have had to apply for these as my husband has just walked out on me and my son,he was the one who worked and the credit was only in my name as he didnt have very good ratings and then i had all the bills put in my name to make payment easier for me when he was working! i should not have to disclose all this but trish or whoever you are,i think you are very rude and ignorant to guess a situation and then slag me off for it! once my husband left i had to claim benefits until i get retrained so i can be employed with a decent wage!(i had to leave my job too)!you disgust me when i was only seeking help at a very upsetting time....